On Sex & Sexuality

Sex is an expression of LIFE. 

Sex is an expression of LOVE.

Sex a natural. 

Sexual energy is healing energy.

Sexual energy can be transformative. 

Yet, there is much confusion on the questions of sex and sexuality.  

Sex and sexuality is enmeshed and held hostage to shameful social norms.  Sex carries with it the sense of deviant behaviour, illicit, naughty, shameful.  

Yet, sex itself is an expression of Life.  Humankind has an uneasy relationship with Sex.  And the dis-ease of Humankind's relationship with sex causes perversion. 

The pleasure derived from sex is equivalent to many other pleasurable acts that are not condemned or judged: like eating...

Sex is the heart, soul and core of humankind's existence.  

Except Humankind, in innumerable belief system (be it religious, cultural, racial, gender) looks upon sex as a deviant act.  

To which on the one hand, results in punishments from shaming, name calling to stoning and death by drowning. 

And on the other hand, results in deviant behaviour following the attempt to suppress sex and sexuality.  

The false and harmful beliefs around sex (and love and self worth), cause the suppression of sexual appetite, energy and flow.  

Suppression causes perversion.  

Perversion causes deviant behaviour.  

Deviant behaviour & suppression causes harm: incest, catholic priests raping altar boys, men raping women, hidden fetishes and fantasies for everyday people. 

There is nothing dirty, wrong or shameful about sex.  

Sex is an act of Life.  Sex is an act of Love.  Healthy sex and views toward sex is natural.  

Sex is one of the greatest pleasures of the experience of LIFE. 

Sex is not evil. 

Sex is transformative. 

Sex is healthy. 

Sex is natural.

Unhealthy beliefs towards sex are demonstrative of a disconnection from LIFE. 

little Bear 

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